Coming out as gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, or queer can be an incredibly liberating step toward living as one's true self. However, for many LGBTQ individuals, the process of coming out is also accompanied by a profound and often unexpected sense of loss. Whether it’s family members who become distant, friends who don't understand, or communities that turn away, the experience of grief can be intense and disorienting. This type of grief—where one feels unable to fully mourn because society doesn't always recognize the loss—is called disenfranchised grief. For LGBTQ people, this grief is often compounded by social stigma, leaving them to process the loss of their former lives largely on their own.